I see all of my loved ones whole and well.....in joy.  That is what I see in my heart.  That is the story I tell.  Byron Katie says "who would I be without my story?"  but I say who would I be with a different story?  It's a subtle twist.....I see all in wholeness and wellness.  That is what I choose to see in my heart.  I tap in energetically to wholeness and wellness.....to God.